Happy vs Healthy
Yes it is that time of year when families are getting together and couples are holding hands window shopping and children's eyes are glistening taking in all of the possible gifts they are to receive. I love this time of year because love seems to reign, at least in the circles I am in. It's wonderful to see...love. My prayer is that we all will at some point in our lives, experience the truth and openess of pure love be it from our spouse, our mates, our children or our friends. But today, my focus is on relationships. Those relationships where two people say, "I love you" and "you are my life" kind of relationships. Recently, my own personal relationship ended and though it had lasted for around 3 years...it was happy but I found out after the breakup it wasn't...healthy. We can love someone and be with someone and want to spend the rest of our lives with someone because we "love them" but if we were to take a deep look at that person...